The game is rigged. Where only the top players will come out on top and get all the girls. Fortunately, it's easy in this day and age to come out on top and get all the girls you want. Everything is upside down, and all you have to do turn things right side up.
First, women are forever USED to getting asked out on dates. They're used to any number of men giving them attention just for showing up. They're used to being worshipped just for being pretty. They're used to the red carpet treatment from a tidal wave of men they don't find attractive.