There's an art to provoking people to chase. And many insist that high value men and beautiful women don't chase anyone which is false. All people will chase provided you allow yourself to actually be sought after.
Chasing has nothing to do with the person but has everything to do with you and how you control the dynamic through strategic discipline, patience and the desire to be above your emotions. And to acclimate yourself to being the pilot of your very own big sexy jetliner people will be lining up to board.