It definitely seems like a tall feat trying to navigate the dopamine/instant gratification dating marketplace minefield these days running amok in Western society.
Everything is in your face 24/7/365 and at your full disposal. Disposal being the keyword here (unironically). But it's important for you to understand precisely what people are trying to get out of you in chasing these cheap and disposable dopamine fixes.
Bottom line: People are no longer used to having to work for anything anymore. Whether it's collecting a monthly stipend from the government or getting casual, no strings sex from strangers off Tinder.