Ladies, Don't Bother With Men Who Do THIS

If you watched my livestream last night on Instagram and YouTube, I mentioned I came across a thread posted by a woman complaining about some massive icky loser asking her out for coffee at 9am on a Saturday as a "first date".

A fair amount of you likely believe there's nothing in the world wrong with a shitty coffee "date" at 9 o'clock in the morning.

And if you happen to be a single woman thinking this is perfectly acceptable, that's exactly why you're single and won't be finding a husband anytime soon.

I also mentioned it seems like people are trying to deliberately turn off the folks they date in asking them out for coffees at 9am.

Coffees at 9am is an outing you go on with your boss and the people you can't stand at work because "protocol" and team meetings and therefore need the mediocre cup of coffee just to stay awake.

Coffee in the morning at 9am is NOT A DATE.

This was my response to the thread:

This is exactly what I would have done. Or better yet, I would have left him on read which is a top level maneuver for any woman on today's dating scene who is looking for a husband.

Leaving a man on read means you mean business in this dating climate. The dead air fills the room, it fills his brain, and it fills his conscience with some awful male dread that makes him want to try harder as a man.

A lot harder. And I go in-depth on this and other such skillful maneuvers in my Secret Girl Game Club because it helps women get married.

And here is the entire thread for you to feast your eyes on and cringe (make sure you take a cringe pill beforehand or you might actually fall over and cringe to death):

You're damn right you're going to be single forever at this rate.

That's not a joke, ladies. If this is how you conduct yourself with men, you are going to be alone for the rest of your life.

You accepted a lazy ass, low-effort coffee date from a dork of a man who also made you drive 20 minutes to meet him where he lives.

Strike one for you accepting a 9am coffee date on a Saturday. And strike two for you "being flexible" and driving to him for said shitty, low-effort coffee (un)date.

[Hold tight, it gets way worse]

Why are you accommodating his schedule especially since he was a lazy loser out the gate asking for coffee dork meetups where you are albeit guaranteed to look like a fool at 9am?

There goes strike 3, she was accommodating to him and he was late. And supremely lazy (did I mention he was lazy). And now she's found out he's a shortfish liar about his height and she stayed anyway.

Score: Lazy shortfish coffee dork 10, her 0.

She keeps calling it a "date".

It's not a date. It's her driving 20 minutes to meet a loser that didn't find her attractive on top of everything else that really stinks and made her pay for her own coffee.

The low-effort, laziness on the part of this guy is unbelievable to me but it's the norm for today's single women. Men are THIS lazy because women who embarrass and humiliate themselves in putting up with it are the norm.

Men treat you this way as a woman because you're a desperate dummy and you allow it. And men will treat you better and see you as wife material the minute you don't allow any of it.

Lastly, she sat there like a desperate dummy once again hanging on the shortfish loser's every word who lied about his height on their coffee dork (un)date and didn't bother getting up and walking right out like she should have.

And I'm sorry, ladies, but if you are using the word "bruh" with men, you are too masculinized to even be dating men at all. Can't act like a lady, be feminine or behave in a dignified manner and you expect men to be traditional gentlemen and pay for dates?

Really?

"Why are men?"

Nah, why are women?

Why are women accepting coffee dates with a lazy liar shortfish at 9am on a Saturday?

Why are they driving 20 minutes to meet men?

Why are they not getting up and walking right out when a man won't even pay for a lousy $6.00 coffee?

Why are women hanging around listening to some liar shortfish's arrogant, childish ranting about his daily boring loser existence when they should tell him he lied about his height and therefore leave?

This thread went viral with thousands of women just like her singing the praises of her "I'm going to be single forever" coffee dork blues.

Today's women will universally accept the lowest possible effort from a lazy, childish, narcissistic man while expecting him to show up with a horse and carriage.

You get what you settle for, ladies. You settle for lazy bullshit, you get lazy bullshit.

P.S. And a lot of these women are lazy themselves. They don't put in any effort to look feminine or attractive and they show up in pajamas on a date and are surprised when the man is less than enthusiastic about meeting them and won't pay.

You can tell this woman is an asexual Peppermint Patty shut-in femcel who doesn't make any effort to look pretty whatsoever. And she has the expectation that men treat her like she's Bella Hadid.

Not happening. Ever.

Laziness begets laziness. Low-effort begets low-effort.

He's lazy because you don't care about how you look or how you carry yourself around men. He's lazy because you allow it.

Love,

Jenny

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