There's an art to provoking people to chase. And many insist that high value men and beautiful women don't chase anyone which is false. All people will chase provided you allow yourself to actually be sought after.

So I spent the last 8 columns explaining in-depth how to be a player. But what if you don't want to play games with anyone and you want a serious relationship? How do you know what to look for in terms of a serious relationship as opposed to playing games with people in order to cultivate respect?

In getting ready to wrap up this series, I've gone over various techniques in which a player hits his/her target using some basic to advanced methods of turning people on into obsession.

Thus far in this entire series on establishing playing skills, we've discussed how you can earn respect among people along with many other aspects involving being a player.

In Parts 1-5 of this series I discussed the ins and outs of being a player which are more or less uniform to both genders in terms of achieving emotional attraction along with a few other essentials that solidify this basis of obsessive attraction.

In Part IV of this series I briefly highlighted how emotions are the bridge to obsession. Here we'll discuss how to effectively control your emotions to create more favorable outcomes among the people you interact with which is crucial to fostering love and obsession.

In Part III of this series I discussed the system by which players operate as well as some weak spots where you might confront difficulties in acclimating yourself to becoming a player.

In the previous post in this series I discussed sadistic tendencies, potential targets, and how arrogance isn't necessarily part of a player's psychological makeup. People think players run the show, answer to no one and make up their own rules as they go along. They don't.

In Part I of this "How to Be a Player" series, I discussed the psychological makeup of players, the emphasis on respect above all else, and what makes players so successful with the opposite sex.