So you've been going out with a girl for awhile and you're thinking perhaps she's "the one." And you're probably asking yourself, "Can I trust her? Is she going to have my back? Where do we wind up after we walk down the aisle? Is this a good decision for me?"

There's a pattern lately among men wasting a woman's better years (while the woman goes along hunky dory in letting him waste her better years) without giving her a ring and without even broaching the subject of long term commitment.

Men are pretty straightforward in how they feel towards a woman in a relationship and 9 times out of 10 he will reveal just how committed he is to you and your relationship.