So you're dating a high value man and so far things are going well. It may even be getting serious. Then he suddenly does a 180 and starts being less attentive until he becomes closed off completely–you are now locked out of his inner world where you once sat on top of the whole world in love, together.
You've been effectively iced out with zero access and you have now taken to being fully trapped like a prisoner of war in your own sordid feelings–despair, uncertainty, anxiety, sadness, maybe even anger. Everything is topsy turvy, unpredictable and gut-wrenching, and you have no clue where you stand.
"Was it something I said or did?"
"Why would he do this to me when things were going so well?"
"Why am I being shut down and stonewalled?"
"Is he seeing another woman?"