I post a lot of sorely needed, in-depth game tips for both men and women because I have long discovered that the biggest malady facing people today in the dating marketplace is the absence of charm and social skills.
And I've mentioned numerous times in the past that people need to exercise some reserve and patience above all else in getting to know people for a period of 3 months to allow a person's mask to slip–people always reveal exactly who they are and their intentions over time. Always.
And it's tempting to want to project what we want to see and how we expect a relationship to turn out on the other person–we HAVE to stop doing that because it doesn't paint a very clear picture of reality and we wind up getting hurt if/when the relationship heads south.
So while you're under the initial "probationary period" stage with your potential mate, you should make the utmost use of your seduction skills (especially as a woman) and get inside the person's mind and occupy as much space as you can there for as long as you can.
Anti-seduction blunders are the result of the vast majority of people's knee jerk, default carelessness in dating today e.g. demanding a relationship after 3 texts, being thirsty and clingy when someone doesn't respond in 5 minutes, etc.
As I've said before, these behaviors are very prevalent and they're a huge attraction killer for EVERYONE across the board. So you must execute the complete opposite in your dating approach and intrigue people, put them on the edge and let them wonder about you, and allow their imagination to run wild.
Thus my latest article for Evie Magazine should give you a very solid perspective on what seduction looks like from both a woman's and a man's standpoint. With SO many oafish, anti-seductive nincompoops bottlenecking the dating marketplace, it should be like shooting fish in a barrel for you to work your magic on any potential mate....
A man’s five senses should be every woman’s playful merry-go-round in the act of seducing a man:
He wants to see the potential of love and sex as the end goal.
He wants to hear sultry words from a woman that make him feel coveted and desired.
He wants to know what it could potentially feel like to touch and embrace the woman enticing him.
He wants to smell a woman’s desire coming at him a mile away, and he longs to be suffocated by it.
And he wants to taste the “victory” in finally having you.
It’s your job to skillfully make him aware these are all a distinct possibility, NOT a certainty. When sex is a done deal and men don’t have to work for the excitement and pleasure in attaining a woman’s affections and adoration, they devalue the sex, and they devalue the woman too.
Men don’t devalue a woman intentionally per se, but men and people in general want what they can’t have. They suddenly must have whatever it is that’s dangling on a string like a carrot in their face.
If you can manage to let his curiosity (and libido) run wild at the possibility of having you, he can’t help but fully desire to be seduced by you. It becomes very much like a drug to him – the cycles of dopamine, the heart-racing adrenaline, the gut-wrenching “let down” before he’s had the chance to finally win the woman over, etc. It becomes his go-to drug of choice.
Click on the link below to view the rest of the article over at eviemagazine.com:
Love and Many Blessings,
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