Emotional Conduct for Men: What Not to Share and How to Keep It to Yourself
"I get it. We all have problems. Some big, some small. But it does not serve you as a man in any capacity to look to a woman to be your mother, your therapist or your savior."
I've read recently that oversharing is a millennial thing–oversharing as in kvetching about trauma and past mistakes and reenacting them every moment they can with people they aren't well-acquainted with.
Or worse, sharing traumatic secrets with people who are definitely interested in more with said person yet they've suddenly found themselves waist-deep in the confessional sandbox where they inevitably wind up getting turned off by the oversharing.
"What did I do?" they ask after they've been ghosted.