Why Women Are Making Men Into Emotional Tampons and How to Prevent It From Happening to You Ever Again
"So why are you allowing any of this to happen to you by letting it ruin a possibly decent connection if you play your cards right by not being an emotional tampon in the first place?"
Had a client session today and the theme of it centered around being friendzoned by a woman through her seeking out dudes she's dating to be her quasi therapist.
I'm certain as a man this has happened to you in your dating tenure as well.
Let me just start out by saying that it is NOT your responsibility to try and "fix" a woman's problems. You're her romantic interest. That's where it begins and that's where it ends when you are merely dating a woman. You are NOT here to listen to a woman's emotional problems when you're just barely getting to know each other.
"What?! But that sounds heartless! I thought you said people are looking to establish intimacy with others and I figured women sharing problems is the way to do it?"
Guys, I'm afraid it just isn't so and never will be. You're not her therapist and you are not required to be. So get that through your head once and for all.
And make no mistake, women today are emotional tamponing men for a variety of reasons. And the reasons are not what you might think...