"Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I know it's hard to leave a man standing right where he is when you love him so deeply. But sometimes, you have to fight fire with fire. You keep showing up as the 'soft girl' who gives in every single time, he takes it for granted and stops caring."

"Masculine men don't make women central to their existence. They don't gossip about them. They don't hate them. They don't act weird and isolate themselves and complain about women incessantly."

"Meanwhile, his working hormones start flushing through him down to his feet and toes and he's getting hot, flustered, frustrated, horny and is dying for more."

"A woman who is not settling wants to be on your team. You are not adversaries. If she is cooperative, caring, and wants to make life easier for you, she is invested in you, not settling for you."

"You hear it all the time, 'I gave and gave and gave to this man and he did NOTHING for me! I took great care of him for years (like a mommy), he never even proposed and he up and left me for another woman!"

"Ladies, there's actually a much simpler way to vet a man through kissing him. NOT f*cking him (which I don't advocate for regardless), but the very simple act of kissing him."

"There's no healthy middle ground with red pill men. They're always telling you to be some flavor of weirdo with women instead of being a well-adjusted masculine man."

"Sure, men can 'technically' have kids at 50 (that's debatable if you google sperm quality in older men). Doesn't mean they will actually want to. They often don't. They will not be having any children with any woman, younger or older."

It balances itself out where you make a solid team. Each person will contribute in a different way that revolves around strengthening your union. Allow this and welcome it. Then you can get back to enjoying your marriage while minimizing a lot of stress and conflict.