How to Be Feminine and Get Exactly What You Want from a Man
"You don't give into a man's requests when he isn't behaving like a gentleman. Ever. And you brush him off gently. He WILL get the message–and boom, suddenly he starts behaving more like a gentleman because he can't resist your soft push pull energy."
Why Men Love Bitches is a book by Sherry Argov that instructs women on how to stand up for their female interests and assert boundaries while remaining feminine.
I highly recommend the book and have referred it to many of my clients as a resource to understand feminine boundaries and how to be powerful as a woman in being persuasive and charming and NOT being a bitch.
Don't let the title of the book scare you. It has nothing at all to do with being a bitch as most people tend to think of women who are bitches as harridans, pant suit-wearing feminists, nags, etc.