Every woman in every country, society and culture the world over would love to be with a masculine man who's ready and willing to commit and marry.
However, Western culture doesn't really teach (nor incentivize) women to attract and keep a masculine man. And it doesn't help that most men that women encounter today on the dating scene in searching for a relationship aren't masculine.
Thus, they develop certain patterns in dealing with effeminate men that will not benefit them in the slightest when they do meet a masculine man they could see themselves being with.
These patterns tend to fall along the lines of:
- Being too pushy with him in trying to force a relationship. They also won't let him lead in the relationship.
- Being too intimidated by him to the extent the masculine man will find her behavior distasteful and off-putting e.g. too clingy, demanding all his time and attention, smothering him, and possibly even trying to mother him or emasculate him.