"Can you hold that person's hand and feel totally safe and vice versa? And in doing so, can you sense deep within that you know them already? That you realize in that moment all there is to know about them and about love?

"And it's no wonder that submersing yourself in deviant acts over any extended period of time makes you hate women. These are very ugly things. Shocking things. Soul-crushing things. Unnerving things. Inhumane things."

"That's what dopamine does. It's entirely fleeting and does NOT create any type of lasting attraction towards anybody (whether they person you're with is incredibly hot or not)."

"It's probably very uncomfortable for you to even imagine having to wait for anything. Our entire society is based on instant gratification and dopamine. 'Do what feels good right now and don't bother caring about what actually works later."

"And if you can deal with going to war with him for awhile and hold steady at all costs, you could win him over (probably won't want him anyway after the fact but still, it's a win for you)."

"It takes courage to have these tough talks that nobody wants to have–especially when we're left completely 'in the dark' about how the other person feels."

"Because I promise you, the other person is going to RUSH (you can still hold them at bay and not give in too easily for sure lol) to fill in these time lapses. And they will step up their interest times a thousand."

"Every single one of them could sense the desperation and phoniness of it, and it didn’t get me very far. This absolutely destroyed my already lacking sense of self-confidence and left me jaded about dating and women in general."

"Look, I completely understand this is how women feel and this is how they knee jerk react because Chad kickstarts our most primal urges. As you said, it makes you feel ALIVE."