Why You and Everyone Else Keeps Getting Ghosted and How You Can Prevent It From Happening to You
"Because I promise you, the other person is going to RUSH (you can still hold them at bay and not give in too easily for sure lol) to fill in these time lapses. And they will step up their interest times a thousand."
Saw a series of videos today from a dating coach on Instagram who had "the damn nerve" to say the reason men keep ghosting women (specifically) in today's dating environment is, "These guys just plain don't like you. So keep it moving."
I have to agree wholeheartedly. He's correct. Ladies, if a man legitimately likes you, he's going to go out of his way to be with you. End of story.
Unfortunately I have yet to hear anyone else in the dating sphere say it so bluntly and truthfully–there's always an "attachment style" or "it's definitely not me, it's them" and other variations of "people really suck."
There are plenty of other reasons why you and countless others are getting ghosted on the regular and quite frequently. The main reasons I'm seeing are:
- Complete lack of social skills across the board on virtually everyone's part (I know I go on and on about this but it's par for the course)
- Uncommitted casual sex being the pretext to many online/dating app relationships
- A lot of people laying up with people they simply aren't attracted to and have nothing in common with
- A whole lot of desperation everywhere–people need attention and validation in an instant regardless of where and whom they receive it from