Shooting your shot. What does that even mean? And why is shooting your shot crucially important above all else in initially dealing with women?
There's a whole lot of noise on the internet from guys in various dating niches, from red pill to blue pill and everything in between who are giving you shoddy advice with regard to shooting your shot.
So what exactly is shooting your shot?
It's making a move on a woman and expressing sincere interest in her romantically as a man from the get go.
Sounds pretty straightforward, doesn't it? That's because it is. Men have only gotten overly confused about it in this day and age because a lot of male dating coaches and gurus online are teaching men how to be very bad and unconvincing liars to women.
They tell you to:
- Play games with women (because these guys themselves are dishonest and don't know how to be a man and be confident, straightforward and direct).
- Treat women badly. Be a jerk ALL the time with no room for error in your jerkiness. Never show emotion, never be authentic in your feelings, and never show a woman you care or she's going to leave you.
- Be socially awkward with women. Lure her into some place to look at comic books, offer to Venmo her and send her UberEats while remaining in the friendzone and never even asking her out.
I could go on forever. However, I won't. I'm simply going to tell you how and why you need to shoot your shot so you can get the girl you really want.